This week reminded us of the limited time we have on Earth, God-willing or man-willing. It has been a week of more losses than wins, yet we are still here, braving through the coldness of our society.

Not only did we mourn the loss of one of the best thespians to ever come out of SA, but we were also reminded of how serious GBV is in our city and country.

Who would have thought that going on a date would end in your death?

Who would have thought that seeking love would result in such a cruel act of murder? The death of Olorato Mongale was yet another spit in the face of women and activists who have repeatedly begged the justice system to be on their side for once.

The body of the 30 year old Wits student was found on Monday in Lombardy West, after she went on a date with a man named John. Her tragic death saw outrage on social media, with many calling for justice.

Although the main suspect died after a shootout with police in KZN, the wound of seeking for justice is still deep. In a city and country where women are not safe with their loved or strangers, where do we go?

South Africa suffered a big loss as we learned about the passing of internationally-acclaimed thespian Presley Chwenyagae. Over the years, the renowned actor became a fan favourite because of his on-screen role as Thuso Mokoena, aka Cobra. Wa le eazy was a relatable character known for big English words and his flamboyant personality. 

Tributes streamed in from fans and industry colleagues alike, remembering the light and laughter the legendary actor brought. ”Kwaze kwab’hlungu. Didn’t wanna believe it. RIP Cobrizi,” one online user wrote on X. Again, in a world where there seems to be so much loss, where do we go?

As a Joburger and a South African who cares about this society, it’s understandable why you would feel defeated and helpless. It is a dangerous time to be alive, worse if you are a woman or child. Justice delayed is justice denied, considering how slow and incompetent the justice system continues to be.

Granted, life must go on but at what cost? Where must life go on if one is not even sure if they have it in the next few hours? As we wrap up Africa month, it is  important to reflect on this important question: WHERE DO WE GO?